When good dates go bad.

Go meet Kong for our date. He is just as good looking as his pictures. Sweet, funny. I'm very attracted to him. We hang out at his house listening to music and talking and having a few drinks. We end up playing cards with his roommates. It's a good time. Things are going great. He's getting flirtier and flirtier. We are talking a lot of shit playing cards and things are awesome. One of the hands is jacked up and we all start bickering, in fun, mind you, about how to play it out. There is a lot of shit talking going on. And being the little sailor I am, I drop an F bomb. Now keep in mind, there have been plenty of F bombs dropped tonight but mine was a "fuck you, guys". In jest. I was totally kidding. Didn't even realize I said it until Kong got upset. "How are you going to disrespect me and my friends in our house?" Huh? What are you talking about? He repeats what I just said and I sit for a minute, thinking he's kidding, and sure he's going to laugh. But he doesn't. He throws in his cards and says he's done playing. I'm completely flabbergasted and tell him that I was just talking shit. He doesn't respond. I walk to the door and put on my shoes and tell the guys thanks for a fun night. I get to my car and one of his roommates runs out and tells me to get back inside. I say no, Kong obviously wants me to leave. He can't believe I'm really leaving. I say believe it and drive away. I can't even put together what just happened. Seems very surreal. Kong texts me on my way home and asks how it got to that point. Before I can answer him he calls and wants to know why I was so mad that I would talk to him like that and if my temper is always that bad. I try to explain I was not mad, AT ALL, but just playing the game. I'm really upset at this point. He asks if he is going to see me again. I ask him if he wants to and he says yes. I apologize for saying what I said and again reiterate that I was not being disrespectful or mean. He chalks it up as a lack of communication and tells me if he wanted me to leave he would've told me that. He says he will talk to me tomorrow.

FRIDAY
Texts and emails with Kong. I ask if we're ok and he says we are. A few short emails from Mr. No Show telling me to have a good weekend. Some emails with a few new fellas online but no one worth mentioning yet. Decide to hang at the casa and watch movies and chill with Yommey. Talk to Mason for awhile before I go to bed. He's such a dork. What am I gonna do with him?

SATURDAY
Texts throughout the day with Kong and Mason. Go to a hockey game with Fair and her family. It's fun. Mason texts me while I'm there and tells me his friends took him out for a celebrating the finalization of the divorce party. He's at a strip club. I tease him about getting a piece of tail. Kong texts me and says he's going to bed because he's not feeling well. Fair and I go to the bar for a drink after the game. I run into an oldie but goodie, Dom. He so cracks me up. My friends all adore him and think he's the cutest thing since sliced bread. I like him and all but we are just not a match made in heaven by any means. He buys me a drink and asks me to come over and see his new place later. I tell him maybe. Fair and I leave and within minutes I have a text from Dom asking me where I'm going. I tell him home. He asks if he can come see me later. I tell him to call when he leaves the bar and we'll see. Chi calls on my drive home as well. He's on his way to my town for the weekend and wants to see me. I say call when you get here. I know Chi, he won't call. He's totally flaky. I get home and get online and Vanilla is instantly asking me to come over. I tell him I'm tired and going to bed. And I do. When I wake up I have missed calls from Mason and Dom. Sorry boys, a lady needs her beauty rest some times.

SUNDAY
Talk to Mason and tease him about his night. I tell him I would've given him a lap dance for free had he come down to visit. Kong texts me to tell me he's been sick and in bed all day. I tell him to get some rest and call me tomorrow. Mo sends me an email and asks if I will give him a chance to meet for lunch because he's much better in person than on the phone. I say no. Email and IM with two newbies. Law & Builder. Both are cool and make my day go a little faster. Vanilla does not understand why I won't drive over and hang out with him. And by hang out he means watch a movie and then have sex all afternoon. As tempted as I am, because it's been way too long since I've gotten any loving, it's way too damn cold outside for me to even think about leaving the house. He pouts and huffs and puffs for awhile and then asks about maybe meeting up tomorrow. I tell him we will play it by ear.